Monday, July 18, 2011
If you had my signs what would you do to forget someone?
When I saw your Cancer sun and Cancer mercury I thought "there it is." Cancers fear loss. When they love someone their greatest fear is the loss of that love of that person. You are just doing what Cancers do. You are mourning the loss of this guy and it is harder for Cancers than any other sign to let go of a relationship. So you have got to let it go. Keep in touch but remove that guy from your brain as you are going to be meeting many many people when you move. Now this is something that you need to memorize. When you date someone they have to have the 3 C's..And as you are a Cancer that falls for a sob story pretty easily, this is mandatory for you. A man has to have the 3 C's in order to date him. Cash- he needs his own income or you will be supporting him Not good. Car- He has to have a car because you will have to drive him everywhere. Not good. Crib- If he doesn't have his own place to live he will be moving in with you in record time. Also Not Good. You are young and you need a partner that is self-sufficient. That is important unless you want to do "all" for your guy. No, they are supposed to do for you. Also you mention that you hold onto ppl and this you need to work on. It is better to be alone and happy than be with "anybody" This is part of the growing up that we women need to do. You have got to realize that you can be happy without a man. Very Very Important. It is possible to be happy without a guy. Go out with friends. Meet new people. Enjoy your time to grow independent of others. You don't need a guy. But if you hold onto the worthless ones and then you feel worthless you are not going to be happy. You are a wonderful person and often Cancers feel like they have to have a serious relationship all the time. Please don't fall into that trap. There are tons of guys out there so be choosy. Don't settle. Enjoy yourself as these years are some of the happiest days of your life. Don't be in a hurry to settle down. That will come later. Bless you and good luck. Don't take baggage with you to your new destination. Remember every journey begins with one step. Make that step an independent one. You don't want to have to drag a guy with you and feel like you are carrying a ball and chain. Enjoy your independence. Again good luck
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